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Reasons why long distance relationships will never work

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Regardless of how you feel about her and how she feels about you.
When there is distance between you, something is going to happen, in most cases it’s a breakup.
There is far too much time wasted on long distance relationships which could have been saved with pragmatic thinking.

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Here are the reasons why long distance relationship will never work.

1. Minds Wander

The mind is complex thing. One day you are happy and positive, the next day you are sad and angry.
Everyone deals with problems in their own way, but when you are not in the same room as your partner, your mind and theirs will be to wonder.
Is this relationship working? Can I see myself with her in 10 years? Do I want her to be the mother of my children? These questions will be raised in times of doubt, but will take over your mind as well as hers.

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2. You are lacking physical attention

A strong and loving relationship depends on many things. One of the most important (if not the most important) is physical attention.
Kissing, hugging, sex, bra-bra-bra, it all adds to the overall package of being with someone. Humans are incredibly tactile, we need to be touched mostly the ladies needs to be touched than we men. If you are not touching her, someone else will.

3. Jealously will happen

It’s very easy to get jealous over your girl, when you see social media comments and photos of nights out or her around other guys. Once you have a seed of doubt, it will take control of your thoughts and before you know it, all you are thinking about is how she may be hooking up with some other guys.
Not only that, but jealousy will lead to insecurities and help to push you or her away, depending on who is the dominantly jealous one.

4. Technology isn’t enough

Calling, texting, FaceTiming, private messaging,,,,,, it’s all well and good, but there’s nothing like being in front of a person, being able to look them in the eye and touch them. So regardless of how much you stay in contact, it will still put a natural strain on your relationship which is born out of frustration.
You can kid yourself into thinking it will be OK, but this first hand within a couple of months apart.

5. It’s financially draining

If you are a few hundred miles apart, then it might not be so bad. But what if your are thousands of miles away from each other and you have no choice but to get on a plane to see each other? Well, that’s going to cost you a nice chunk of cash over time, which can be better spent on other things.
Also, what if you earn more money than her and she can’t afford to travel to you? Then it’s more of a one sided relationship right? It’s tough and will get to you.

6. It wastes time

Not only does spending money on traveling to each other becomes an issue over time, but Time itself becomes a whole other issue.
Let’s say you decide to see each other a couple of times a month because you only live 400 miles apart. That still means packing bags, hours of traveling there, unpacking bags and then traveling back again.
Do you really want to do this twice a month? Also with a full time job, it would be exhausting.

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7. Someone will cheat

With travel, money, jealousy and no physical contact. You will begin to see signs of doubt. This will eventually cause one of you to cheat. Not because you or her are bad people, but because you are simply trying to fill the void that’s been created by you being in a long distance relationship.
You will feel lonely, you will want to have s3x and you will want to feel that emotional connection with someone. So be prepared for that day.

8. Boredom will set in

Relationships in general can become quite boring, so imagine being in a long term relationship when you are not having s3x, you can’t hug your partner, you can’t ask them a simple question without texting or FaceTiming. It will become boring, because there isn’t any stimulation. It’s almost a robotic relationship.
Boredom as you know will lead to tension. Bad times for your relationship.

9. Communication issues will happen

Even in today’s world with all the possible ways to communicate. You still need to find time to do get something across over text or on the phone. This will lead to communication issues from both sides. She will get frustrated with you because you are not doing something right, you will get frustrated with her, because she is not doing what you want and it just ends an argument.

10. Trust will weaken

Trust can only go so far. The more time you spend apart, the more your trust will weaken for her. If she’s a pretty outgoing girl, it’s only a matter of time before she is presented with a new opportunity (another man). If you are thousands of Miles away from her, why wouldn’t she satisfy her cravings, I mean you wouldn’t know would you? Oh that ting the ting….

Last but not least: No trust in girls when it comes to long distance relationship::::

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