Oh, when I was around 16 years, I had a girlfriend whom I used to love with all of my heart and I used to think that she also loves me the way I do. By that time I didn’t had knowledge of separating a gold digger and a lover, but by the time we breaked-up , that is when I realized that she was not in love with me but she was just drying my pockets day and night…
The most fun part was that she was two years older than me. She used just to do things on money, without money, she used not to allow me even tough her hand, and when I give her, oh she used to count for me the minutes she have to spend with me depending on the amount of money that I gave her….whenever I give her 10k, she say am with you 10 minutes and I had to pay more because I always feeled liked she should stay near me.
Back to point: There are two basic types of gold diggers out there; the woman who don’t give a crap about you, and the woman who give a teensy little bit about you. The first is only interested in herself and what she can acquire.
The latter has more or less resigned herself to dating you because she can do at this moment in time; she probably “likes you OK” but she will never love you.
Ideally, you want to avoid such Kampala chicks whenever possible. Unfortunately, these woman are usually a peg or two above their respective men in terms of looks, so the guys are usually too busy thanking God for their good fortune to notice how frequently Chick Beo needs a new pair of shoes. These signes will tell whether or not she’s into you, or just your money. While there are certainly expections to every rule, and most actions are open to interpretation, they do serve as a general rule of thumb.
1.She only Knocks boots after you have bought something for her.
This is the Gold diggers way of repaying you. It’s also her way of classically conditioning you: You have to pay before you can play. Depending on your financial status, this may be something as small as dinner in a moderately priced restaurant, or it may mean jewelry is required before she will drop her knickers. Either way, she’s your own personal call-girl, whether you realize it or not…
I remember the first girl I loved, lol, even just to hear her voice I used first to deposit money on her account before she answers, without deposit she used not to answer.
Oh she taught me “First feeling of Love.”
2. She has a temper tantrum if you refuse to buy something for her.
This sounds obvious, but it’s a very common with gold diggers. The tantrum may be subtle, giving you the silent treatment, for example—–but it tends to start at the moment of refusal and lasts until next purchase.
Oh, one day I made an appointment with my first girl who tought me first feeling of love via emptying my pockets.. She was used that every time we meet I had to be with something for her, now that day I didn’t have money but I really feeled like meeting her, now we had to agree the place of meeting and the hours, but as I ment, after creating she told me before any conversation, what have you brought for me?
Oh I was like sorry today I don’t have any money. She replied: “What type of man a you, never ever try to call me when you don’t have what to give me stupid.” And immediately she moved……
Woooo, that day the silent of the whole world was on me, and that was the day I discovered the type of love I was in….
3. She only suggests expensive restaurants, hotels, items, etc.
If she’s too good for the occasional burger, this girl is a gold digger. Mind you, that’s metaphorical; there are plenty of vegan gold diggers out there, believe it or not. The point is, she never selects a destination that will be kind to your wallet.
One day I went with my gold digger chick in ladies boutique, lol she picked expensive cloths which I myself I don’t have such expensive cloth and she forced me to pay and I had to do it not to get ashamed but woooo, gold diggers are the most active girls ever in the world and they can take great care of you when they discover that something is in your pocket, oh all nice, sweet and lovely names she will call you all the names.
4. She earns a very modest income, yet everything she own are very expensive even more than you own.
This is less obvious than it sounds. A good gold digger knows how to network, and she knows she needs some kind of job, lest she look like what she is. She will probably work part-time somewhere, and supplement her income with your donations. All those shoes, clothes, etc —– you better believe she didn’t pay for them herself…