tips to attract your lover

Tips to attract your soulmate

Do you still wondering how you can attract your soulmate?
Truly I can’t tell you when your soulmate will show up, here’s what I know for sure:
Finding true love is possible for anyone at any age…
Below are some tips to make you attract your soulmate…

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1. Believe it will happen…
This wonderful universe of ours is setup to deliver the people and things to us that are consistent with our beliefs. If you don’t believe you will ever find the one, then guess what…you probably won’t. So, believing and knowing that your soulmate is out there is the most important part of the formula. If you learn to believe that “the one” is not only out there but is also looking for you, then true love can be yours.

2. Fall in love with yourself…
Know that you are lovable. Find ways each day to nourish yourself with love, appreciation, positive thoughts, and tenderness. Begin to care for yourself as if you are the most important person in the world. You deserve your own love and affection.
When you fall in love with yourself, the whole world mirrors that love back to you. Oscar Wilde said it best:
“To love yourself is the beginning of a lifelong romance.”

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3. Make space for your beloved one…
Eliminating physical cluster from your life is one of the fastest ways to increase the in-flow of new postive energy. At the same time, you alsi want to create physical space for your soon to arrive beloved.
Make sure to clear some space in your closet and keep the nightstand on your soulmate’s side of the bed empty so that when they arrive, they can fill it with their own personal items. Remembee the old saying,
“Nature abhores a vacuum” ? It applies here. Create space so the universe can deliver your soulmate into a home that welcomes him or her (even if you never plan to have your soulmate live with you in your space, it’s essential to do this).

4. Heal your heart…
Past hurts will prevent you from magnetizing big love. You may not realize it, but resenting people or being unwilling to forgive them actually binds you to them. Make a list of the ex-lovers with whom you are still harboring grudges or resentment. Write each one a detailed letter expressing your upset. Give yourself permission to go full out, as you will never mail these letters. Then, write a second letter…..this time from your ex-love’s point of view.
Then read all the letters out loud to yourself with the intention of allowing any remaining animosity to dissipate. When we heal the scars of our past, we open the door to a more fulfilling future.

5. Map out your desires…
Write a list of the most important qualities your soulmate will possess.
Then take your list and create a “vision map,” a collage that becomes a visual representation of your romantic future. It really works..
I know one forty-something single man who quickly manifested his soulmate this way: After he created his vision map, he took a photograph of it and made it the wallpaper on his laptop and his cell phone. Dozens of time each day he focussed on his “vision,” and Voila! Within a few months he met the love of his life.

6. Be the loving person you are…
Find ways to express more love to everyone in your life. The universe tends to mirror back to us our beliefs about ourselves and the world. If we believe the world is a loving and friendly place, then most of the time that will be our experience. But if we believe the world is a chaotic, stressful and fearful place, then that becomes our reality.

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7. Live your soulmate truth everyday…
Live in the knowingness that you are in a loving, committed relationship. Big love is possible for anyone of any age if you are willing to become a magnet for love. To do this, begin “Living as if,” which means your actions follow your beliefs. For instance you might buy birthday or “I love yoy just because” greeting cards that you will give your beloved somebody, or even bigger gifts you want to shower him or her with…

8. Create an alter in the relationship corner of your home…
According to feng shui expert, the far right corner of your bedroom is considered the relationship area. To enliven this space, create a sacred alter. Items to place on the alter can include fresh flowers, a pair of pink or red candles, a pair o f small swans or other romantic photographs, icons, or statues that represent to you the image of love and family…
You may also want to hang your “Vision map” above your alter. Find time each day to spend a few minutes sitting ib front of your alter saying a prayer of graditude for your beloved’s swift arrival…

9. Listen to your intuition and take action…
It’s important to be on the lookout for synchronistic signs from the universe or inspiring invitations that come out of the blue which may lead you to your soulmate. Take action when these kinds of opportunities present themselves. Takingactipn may also mean joining an online dating services, enrolling in a scuba diving course, or simply sharing with trusted friends your desire to meet the love of your life.

Here’s what i know for sure…
The soulmate secret works. It works for every one of every age. It just requires that you invest a little time, energy, intention and attention.
Isn’t spending the rest of your life with the love of your life worth that investment.
What i say is love yourself and take care of your looking….the attraction will come automatically…

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