make love last longer

Ways to make your love last longer

Many people be in relationship for a short time and they break it due to some small reasons.
Happiness mainly comes from our own altitude rather than from external factors.
When two people get together and Start working on themselves, when they aim to grow together instead of avoiding growth by depending too much on each other, they build a connection on a higher level. Couples who understand that this is the greatest gift they can give each other will be the happiest couples, they will experience true love!
Below are tips to make love/relationship last longer.

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1. Love yourself first…
Many people don’t realize that their feelings toward other people are largely determined by their feelings about themselves. Learning to love yourself will not only benefit yourself, but also your partner.
A couple of ways to start loving yourself in action:
The mirror exercise:.. Stand infront of the mirror, look yourself in the eye, and say, “I love you. I really, really love you!” Don’t just say the words; try to feel them. It may take some practice, but if you do this two or three times a day for a couple of minutes, you will feel the results!
Practice self-acceptance:….
You are a magnificent human being. You may have some flaws, but that’s okey. Everybody has flaws and we all make mistakes. You can learn from them, accept them, and even be grateful for them, and even be grateful for them, because they have helped form the person you are today.

2. Choose to be happy…
True happiness comes from within. Nothing or no one can “make” you happy. When you are a happy person because you choose to be, this will rub off on your partner, or attract more potential partners if you are single. Being happy feels good on the inside and looks good on the outside!
A few ways to choose happiness every day:
Practice gratitude and optimism….
People who see the world optimistically see opportunities and love everywhere they go. There’s truth in the saying
“Change the way you look at things and the things you look at will change.” Make a habit out of gratitude. when the sun shines on your face, when someone let’s you cut in line, when someone smiles at you, say “thank you.” you don’t even have to say it loud; thinking it will do just fine.
Don’t let others determine how you feel…
Try not to worry about what others say, think, or do…..even if they talk badly about you. You can still respond to them, but don’t let it affect your level of happiness. The moment you get emotionally involved you have lost your inner peace.
Accept your circumstances…
You cannot control everything that happens in life. Sometimes, bad things happen. We cannot escape from this; we can only accept it. Choose to accept the circumstances you can’t change instead of causing yourself to suffer.
Have fun!… Find something you love to do and do it on a regular basis. For me, I love evening walk and exercise, so evey evening atleast I use one hour to practice.

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3. Fall in love when you are ready not when you are lonely…
Don’t compromise or get into a relationship for the wrong reasons.
Being alone isn’t the same as being lonely. When you love yourself, you don’t mind being alone sometimes because you are spending time with your best friend. Ironically, being in a bad relationship can make you feel like the loneliest person in the world.

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4. Do not lose yourself in a relationship….
Make time for yourself, pursue your own goals, and do things without your partner. Maintain a healthy balance between your personal time and your time together.
Putting yourself first in a relationship might seem strange at first, but it makes perfect sense. If you go into a relationship expecting your partner to make you happy, your partner might expect the same from you. Do you really want to be responsible for your partner’s happiness? That’s quite a responsibility to take on.
Wouldn’t be much better if you and your partner entered a relationship and committed to becoming the best people you both can be while sharing your love with each other? No needs, no expectations, no obligations. Do you see how in a relationship like that, love has the freedom to grow into something truely amazing…..

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